Debating love

Love a word that comes and goes.  Theres not really a definition for love but to me love is excepting someone physically , mentally , and emotionally. Accpeting them flaws and all. Being a friend and a lover.

something that bothers me about love with people my age is how they "think" you have to be with them through everything even if they're being treated bad. They always think you have to be there in a relationship for it to be love. But sometimes LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH to stay.   My friends go through alot staying with a guy who can't stay faithful i always tell them if he's cheating then he obviously doesn't love you enough to be with JUST YOU! 

 theres a saying "you can't make the same mistake twice because the 2nd time its not a mistake its a choice"  i am a big co-signer when it comes to this quote because as humans we always say everyone deserves a second chance when honestly NO , everyone doesn't . Some people are most defintely not worth 2nd chances. Cheating should not be tolerated but i don't want to sound like a hypocrite because I've been "that girl" , taking a guy back after he's cheated multiply times & it was one of my biggest mistakes. I feel like i wasted my time and energy on something i knew would never be the same.  Trust was gone and was never coming back and I finally excepted and moved on with my life.....well im attempting too.